We Thought Love Was Enough” – How Premarital Counselling Transformed Our Relationship
Introduction
Why a Happy Couple Still Chose Premarital Counselling
Aanya and Raghav (names changed) had what looked like the perfect love story. Five years together, shared memories, dreams of a future, and a ready-to-go wedding hashtag. So, why did they walk into a counselling room?
Session Insights
What They Learned in Counselling – Session by Session
Session 1
“We Communicate Really Well”… Or Do We?
➡️ They spoke often—but didn’t truly listen.
➡️ They learned to listen with empathy and validate without fixing.
Lesson: Deep love still needs intentional communication.
Session 2
The Unspoken “Dealbreakers”
➡️ A surprise revelation about moving abroad sparked tension.
➡️ Assumptions they never questioned surfaced.
Lesson: Honest dialogue prevents future disconnect.
Session 3
Facing the Past to Strengthen the Present
➡️ Aanya’s childhood experiences shaped how she handled conflict.
➡️ Raghav misunderstood her emotional responses.
Lesson: Unhealed trauma can silently impact even the happiest couples.
What Changed
They Weren’t Broken – But They Got Stronger
➡️ Built emotional safety
➡️ Practiced real conflict resolution
➡️ Created a shared vision of the future
Quote:
“Premarital counselling didn’t fix us. We weren’t broken. But it gave us a map we didn’t know we needed.”
Final Thought
Start Strong. Start Together.
Love brings you together. But understanding, healing, and communication keep you together.
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